I’m Maria
Master Energy Healer, Self Love Leader + Relationship MentoR
I empower women to break toxic relationship patterns, choose themselves, and become a magnet for the love they deserve—without the chase.
Stop waiting for, chasing, and convincing others to choose you.
Choose yourself and attract the kind of love that chooses you, every single time.
i spent most of my life
chasing after Douchebags
Born with a deep-rooted fear of abandonment and rejection, I spent most of my life waiting on emotionally unavailable men. My early years were marked by codependency and an anxious attachment style, driven by the need to please others and avoid rejection. This manifested in toxic patterns where I constantly tried to earn love and validation.
This looked like:
Doing everything I thought others wanted me to do, just to be liked.
Feeling on top of the world when others were happy, because it meant I had done something right.
Assuming that every time someone was unhappy, it was something I had done wrong.
Mentally obsessing over how to make things right, so they would be happy with me again.
Hiding my true self, pretending to be happy even when I wasn’t, out of fear of rejection.
All of which made me a magnet for toxic and emotionally unavailable relationships.
my transformation
THE SHIFT TO RADICAL SELF LOVE
Everything changed one night as I lay in bed, devastated and sobbing over yet another Mr. Emotionally Unavailable, repeatedly checking my phone in a futile attempt to settle that kick-in-the-gut feeling. Deep down, I knew the reply I was waiting for would never come. But this time was different—this was my breaking point. Not only was I heartbroken from being ghosted again, but I was utterly exhausted from always chasing, waiting for, and trying to convince these emotionally unavailable men to choose me.
As I lay there, I found myself doing the math, calculating all the time and energy I had wasted on men who gave me nothing in return. In that moment, I made a vow: I would never entertain another relationship until I had transformed my life and become a magnet for the emotionally available love I deserved. It was time to start giving that love and energy to myself.
That’s when I began what wouLd become a 7-year relationship hiatus
During this time, I immersed myself in emotional energetics, releasing trapped emotions and recalibrating my energetic signature. Through radical self-love, I realized my worth, upleveled my standards, and transformed into someone who no longer waited for love but attracted it.
Most importantly, I learned to choose myself.
Are you ready to stop the chase and become a magnet for the love you deserve?
WORKING WITH ME
WHAT I DO
As a Self-Love Leader and Relationship Mentor, I’m here to guide you on the same journey. My goal is to empower you to break free from toxic relationships, embrace radical self-love, and experience emotional freedom.
Through my signature Uplevel + Flow Framework, we will:
Clarify your transformation by identifying current patterns and desired outcomes.
Evaluate and untangle your energetic signature through deep inner child work, body scans, and emotional energetics.
Uplevel your beliefs to support your new energetic signature.
Design an aligned action plan that helps you attract your desires effortlessly.
WORKING WITH ME
WHAT I WANT FOR YOU
My highest intention is for you to choose yourself first and experience a profound uplevel in your relationships and life. I want you to become a magnet for healthy, emotionally available love—the kind that chooses you every single time.
FUN FACTS ABOUT ME
To call me a potty mouth would be a gross understatement.
I don’t have an inside voice (not even sure what that really means).
I have a movie quote for every situation in life. Although, few people ever really get my movie quotes, but that’s okay.
Pippa’s my dog. She’s cute. She’s in charge. She knows it.
When I was younger I wanted to be a surfer when I grew up (funny thing is I hadn’t yet seen the ocean).
In the summer I often forget the windows are open when I’m singing in the car. Really loud and totally off key.
I’m obsessed with action films and chick flicks (can you say confused?).
I once asked Santa for a life of leisure.
I’m stubborn. I’ve come to terms with it.
Somewhere between the jungle, the ocean and the volcanos lies my happy place.
I love the snow but hate the cold.
I could spend hours at the window watching thunderstorms and listening to the coyotes howl at the moon.
I’ll give up coffee when….oh right…never (update: I ate my words on this in Jan of 2024)
I have redesigned my wardrobe and my life more times than I care to count.
No matter what I’m doing, I am almost always listening to music.
I love singing and laughing out loud, even if I’m the only one in the room.
I believe that there is no greater gift for us to share than our own truth and authenticity.
Most of all, I believe that if you love yourself the way you want to be loved, you will be.
success stories
“One session with Maria was more powerful than six months of therapy.”
– Gemma J | UK
“My husband finally sees me and prioritizes my feelings and needs.”
– Adrienne H | SE
“We’re now looking for places together, speaking in terms of ‘us’ and ‘we’.”
– Kat S | CA
“I feel like I could conquer the world.”
– Eugenia W | AU
“My ex texted me, and for the first time, I had zero desire to respond. I’m finally free!”
– Gemme J | UK
“A session with Maria feels like a quantum leap.”
– Angela D | US
“Maria’s guidance has catapulted my life to a whole new level.”
– Angela R | US
ready to transform your life and relationships
In This Series, You’ll Discover How To:
Identify and release toxic relationship patterns
Reconnect with your inner child to heal past wounds
Uplevel your energetic frequency to attract healthy, loving relationships
Are you ready to break toxic patterns and finally manifest healthy love?
Sign up now and take the first step toward transforming your relationships and your life. Your future self will thank you.