Have you ever wondered why people-pleasing and perfectionism often go hand in hand? Do you often find yourself struggling with being both a people-pleaser and a perfectionist? Well, you're not alone, my friend.
In this episode of TheFemmeCast, I spill the tea on my personal journey of breaking free from the chains of people-pleasing and perfectionism.
Let me tell you, being a perfectionist and a people-pleaser is not sexy at all. I used to take pride in my perfectionism, thinking it was something to be proud of. But boy, was I wrong! My perfectionism was just another form of people-pleasing, and it held me back in so many ways. I set the most impossible standards for myself, and would almost always lead me into a spiral of negative thoughts and feelings when I didn't meet them.
But fear not, my friend! I'm here to tell you that embracing imperfection is the key to breaking free from people-pleasing and perfectionism. It's time to let go of the expectation of perfection and embrace the messiness of life. Waiting for perfection is like waiting for a unicorn to show up at your doorstep. It's not gonna happen! So start living your best life now, even if it is a hot mess, and remind yourself that your best is enough.
Breaking free from people-pleasing and perfectionism is a process. It takes time, effort, and a willingness to embrace imperfection. But trust me, it's worth it! So, let’s dive in and help you to do just that, all while mastering the art of radical self love and acceptance. So that you too can start living your best hot mess life today.
Let’s do this.
Remember. Love yourself the way you want to be loved, and I promise you, you will be.
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